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Worship Guide – September 27, 2015 – Alliance of Baptists Sunday
Our guest preacher is Dr. Mark Jensen, Teaching Professor of Pastoral Care and Pastoral Theology at Wake Forest University Divinity School. Our focus is provided by Dr. Laura Parajón, medical director of AMOS Health and Hope in Nicaragua, one of Pullen’s international partners and a mission partner of the Alliance of Baptists. Offering music for worship are Janice Hocutt, organist/pianist; The Chancel Choir with Jay Schoonover, soloist; and Larry E. Schultz, Minister of Music.
I know what it feels like to act with conviction.
And to “know” I’m on the “right side.”
And to believe I’m doing God’s work.
I, too, use my faith to guide my choices and actions.
And so I see where you’re coming from and why you feel so strongly.
It hurts me that the Christian faith is being interpreted, though, to diminish people and their love for one another. How is it that among us spiritual folk, there is such disagreement about what the Bible teaches and what God desires of us?
The church I preach at uses Micah 6:8 as a guiding principle:
What does God require of you but to do justice, to love kindness and to walk humbly with your God?
As straightforward and clear as it seems to me, I understand that even among Christians, we have vastly different understandings of what it means to “do justice.” Religion often comes down to how one human or another has interpreted a line. We tear each other down over verses that we are just doing our humanly best to understand.
Perhaps Jesus foresaw this and for that reason clarified with one, simple, straightforward, Golden Rule:
AND YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND, AND WITH ALL YOUR STRENGTH.’ “The second is this, ‘YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.
Here we can agree, I believe. And this is what I ask of you: To love this neighbor as you do your God and yourself. I’m Nancy Petty. I have a beautiful wife and daughter. My life’s work is to do justice, love kindness and walk humbly with my God. A large part of my calling is to accept and affirm all of God’s people who arrive at my church doors. Many of them come with broken hearts at having been battered by their home churches. Many come with the extraordinary amount of faith it takes to still seek communion with God and acceptance from a faith community, even after a pastor has told them that they’re going to hell. Congregants come because they know love. And they know that God is love. And they simply do not believe in a God that does not love their love.
To deny someone the right to wed their beloved is hateful. LGBTQ youth and adults alike are suffering from abuse, neglect, depression and even suicide. These beloved brothers and sisters are hurting for want of being loved and accepted. As people of faith, are we not called to offer our unconditional love and acceptance?
You may not ever agree with me on the issue of same-sex marriage. But I do pray that you can love us – your neighborly brothers and sisters in Christ – as God has commanded. And loving us looks like accepting and affirming us. A person is truly loved when she is fully accepted as who she is in the eyes of God.
Kim, I pray that there may be peace in your heart and love in your actions.
And to all of you beautiful LGBTQ persons out there who are missing your faith communities and longing for a worship experience where you can show up exactly as you are without fear, I say you are welcome in the Pullen family.
Pullen Memorial Baptist Church is a community of people seeking to be more human, knowing that we are created in the image of God. We are seekers with many questions embracing that we can transform and be transformed. Our community welcomes all: The Certain and the Doubtful; The Excluded and the Included; Rich, Poor and In Between; Divorced, Partnered, Single and Widowed; Atheist, Agnostic, Buddhist, Catholic, Protestant, Islamic, Hindu, Jewish or Nothing; Heterosexual, Homosexual and Transgender; Black, White, Asian, Latino; Citizens and Guests. We celebrate unique gifts and embrace our challenges.
All are welcome here. Come here to be who you are.
Reverend Nancy Petty
Pullen Memorial Baptist Church
Raleigh, North Carolina
Text: Mark 9:30-37
Fears have a way of sneaking into our very being and depriving us of truly living. In fact, some of my worst actions and decisions in life have been motivated by fear. Such an experience happened recently. Several weeks ago, I received a phone call from Nora while I was in a meeting here at church. The first three times she called I didn’t answer. But by the fourth call I became worried that something might be wrong so I answered. The conversation went something like this. “Mom, I met a new friend at the coffee shop. She says she hasn’t had anything to eat all day. Is it okay if she comes home with me, and I fix her something to eat?” Not wanting to be distracted from my meeting, I quickly, but with some reluctance replied, “yes, that will be okay.” [Read more…]